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Gay or Straight --How to Tell If He Is Gay Related Links Relationship Articles Index Should I Marry Him? DaddyHood-HowMen Feel About It April 24, 2009 By Amanda Hillyard, Columnist and Relationship Editor First, an introduction. I am straight. But my best friend is a gay man. He only dates men. And guess what? 7 out of 10 men he dates say they are straight. Huh? I have gotten this question from so many girlfriends --how can you tell if man is gay, even if they say they are straight? So, I went to the source. Who would know better than a gay man? Here are the telltale signs. Some of them may surprise you. 1. Ignore the words. Watch the behavior. Most men who are closeted are experts at hiding the truth. They know how to hide their tracks. But the one thing they can't hide very well is where they choose to take their bodies. So, ask him where he has vacationed. If he has been to Amsterdam, Barcelona, St. Croix and Brazil....Hmmm. Those are meccas for gay men on vacation. If his favorite town in Florida is South Beach...Hmmm ..that's a famous gay trolling ground. 2. Find out who they go on vacation with. If they travel alone....Hmmmm. Most straight are uncomfortable traveling on vacation alone. If they travel with a male buddy..Double Hmmmmm. If they never travel with a woman...Hmmmm. 3. Who does he call. Ladies, here's a truth. The person you call while on vacation is your romantic interest. Take it to the bank. 4. Age. If a man by the age of 40 has never married or had a long-term female relationship...Hmmmm. 5.Lone Wolf. He always goes stag to parties, job functions, year in-year out. 6. Sex. Is sex infrequent even in the first parts of the relationship. Guys don't often "save themselves". So, if he shows no interest or he is extremely comfortable waiting until you get married...Hmmmm. 7. Hair. Meticulous grooming doesn't always mean you're gay. But if he is supermeticulous in his grooming and any of the other signs are present...Ooooh..Hmmmm. 8. Lots of "little sisters". Gay men, many of them, are extremely comfortable talking to women about any of their personal problems. They become like another "girlfriend" sometimes. Could be an evolved man or ....Hmmmm. 9. Secret Agent Man. He has big gaps in his schedule. It could mean he's with another woman or it could he's at a tea dance. Hmmmm. 10. Dolce and Gabana. Ladies, watch the labels. Many gay men are notorious label hounds. 11. Halloween. To many gay men, Halloween is the height of the social calender. Has he circled October 31st on his calender...Hmmmm. You're just getting started. Want to find out the more relationship tips? How to Tell If He Is Cheating/ How to Build Up Your Self-Confidence/ Stop Attracting the Wrong Guys --A How to Guide / Relationship Center And now that you know. Spread the word on chootoo to your friends. Do a friend a favor and send her a link to this article. Register -members get special newsletters with articles like this one. |